Love-Wat Exactly is it???!!!

Love Love Love!!! i have heard enuf abt wat love is from every second person i knew......but today here i wud wanna put forth Love as perceived by me when i look at few frends of mine........
Startin from school......

Sravanthi:Mutual respect and trust on each other and a strict No-No for any intimate relationships until marriage.......If its true it waits patiently........

Pavani:Love is being urself......lettin out ur happiness sadness anger and sharing it with a spl person in this world.......n trust in her sense was to believe him completely.......

Sudeepthi:Love is not always abt happiness.......Love is Sacrifice......n marriage doesnt have to be the end of any successful love affair.......

Archana:Love is al abt loving a Reddy Guy :).......hope she wud forgive me for writing it this way........yet she believes family is equally imp to completely love ur patner........

Anirudh:Love is a pleasant and extraordinary feeling which doesnt happen to al n sundry.......Its great to fall in love unless the girl is a "burkhi"wali.......(this is for him n not generalised).........

Vamsi:Love is Shit......pure shit......n if u ask him more al he can say is "love is al abt getting as intimate as u can with her.......its jus a way of letting out ur energy".

Raju:Love is not goin against ur parents......atleast for him....he wudnt fall in love anyday coz his family wudnt spare him if he did..........

Rajsekhar:Love happens in movies n for ppl like him it really doesnt work out.......n he hasnt told abt a single crush which he ever cherished.....

Somnath:Love is al abt dating n goin out with girls......shudnt think too deep abt its effects......

Now time for my really close college frenz........

Shruthi:Love is in the air....nature n i love being loved by al......n love can be in any form between anyone.....a hard core follower of it......love u shruthi.....;).......

Smitha:Love is al abt strong crushes n not neglecting ur family's preferences when u like or have a strong crush on someone........

Priyanka:Love is not breaking ur parents heart.....neither is it breaking ur heart......but if u have a war between these two.......i like to see my parents happy rather than myslef coz they know wats best for me........

Harika:Love is frendship......Two frends can make great lovers.......n oh yeah she believes marriage isint the end of love....only Death.....harika baga cheppanaaa;)......

Shipra:Love is abt loving the one person in ur life whom u trust believe and can get along with.........be it loving ur husband after marriage or loving ur BF bfr marriage.....

Now Love according to one Really Spl Frend of mine who wudnt want to be named........

"Love is abt being exactly urself n not having to say sorry anyday.......Love is bein able to forgive n forget.......Love is to see ur sweetheart in other women if she isint arnd;)......i hope ppl are seeing......:)

Last but not the least how I perceive Love........
Love is al abt bein happy......being happier n bein happiest.....knowin more n more each day abt ur only one.....Love is abt surprises......the only thing tht shud matter is....."when ur happy with him are u sure it wud surpass al those low moments in ur life and remain ever cherished"....n yeah......Love is definitely not somethin tht we see in movies......few of them always an exception tho.......

This is Life

Life is like this.......
i went to my cousin's marriage yesterday.......A girl cousin's marriage.......the girl cousin who is jus older to me.......al these things are much imp than the marriage to me.......clad in flowing zardosi sarees......me n my sis looked arnd for a dark corner n sat down....we dint want to be in ppl's sight.......but invariably......my atta(dad's sister) calls out to me......i see few ladies lil away from me.......i can visualise 'Start camera....Lights....Action' in my mind now...... n here comes the Action.......I put on the most Plastic n Elastic smile on my face n walk towards them......these auntie ladies ask me my name n wat im studyin.....well it doesnt end here.....their next question wud be"bagaa chaduvutavaa nuvvu?"(do u study well?)......."oh no...not really...im tryin my level best to flunk in al the subjects this sem n repeat al over again".......how much i wish i cud reply back like this......n then my atta takes over....."chala buddimanturaalu(well behaved)......chalaa baga chaduvutundi(studies well).......infosys lo job vachhesindi(she has a job at infy).......inka sambhandhaalu vetukamani valla nannaki cheppesaanu(i told her dad to serach matches for her).....meeru kooda teliste cheppandi(tell me if u know some matches)".....oh my god..it mite sound cliche but it happens...it happens al the time n this time much more vigorously coz im carryin the "Im Next in Line" tag now.........n the worst part of it bein tht we have to jus keep goin arnd to be in ppl sight......such a hell it is.....If u are thinkin tht this is the end of it....No its certainly not.......my own relatives now turn up to me sayin"aaaaa inka next nuvve ne....nee pelli ki kooda ilage chestam(ur the next one to get married...we will be doin al this for ur marrige too)"........well nobody here is bothered abt wat i want.......tho girls like me have been bold enuf to tell wat they want....it really doesnt make a diff to them......such a sick system it is......i respect the concern my ppl have for me...but they jus want girls like me to get married so soon....like girls are born n do graduation jus to get married......n i really dunno if its jus happiness tht they get out of it.......nevertheless.....I got used to it n not complainin abt it ne more......whenever i go to marriages......all i have to do is......"Start camera....Lights.......Action"

My First Post!!!!

Oh my god.....i always wondered if i cud ever start bloggin even tho i loved it coz im too lazy to do it......finally i knew i had to start with it someday n why not today.....coz today is a holy(holi) day!!!.......so this is al i have for my first blog.......more to come very soon.....