A Love Story

Once upon a time there lived a girl n a guy.They had their own short love story.Cant write abt the whole story now.But wanted to tel wat i know abt them n her in particular n wanted to show my support to her.For the full story refer a blog written by harika for them at http://k-harika.blogspot.com.

Now my version of story.I knew they really loved each other.She was my close frend.He wasnt.Got to know him thru her in a while.Nice guy.I always thought both of them wud be very happy with each other.N the whole idea of break ups sent shivers down my spine.How can ppl take it? How wud they handle it? How can one give up on a person they really wanted to share their whole life with? But like its said.Its true.U have to break up when things get out of hand.But my whole idea of love n realtionships is different.If u like a guy think ahead.U cant go ahead jus thinkin i like this guy n this mite be love.Know ur priorities n ur parents priorities too if they matter to u.Can u get them to a decent level with the guy are abt to go ahead with.N then go ahead.U mite feel its not true love or real love if its involving so much of future thoughts n settlement details.But i wud say, if ur really sure tht this is the guy, the one with whom u want to spend the rest of ur life with, u wud very well think ahead bfr getting into a realtionship with him.I personally believe this wud save any couple from a lot of struggle n pain later on.N jus getting into a relationship knowing tht ur in love n taking up a painful break up later on doesnt work.Someimes even when ur totally sure abt the relationship n its future,things mite not go as u have planned.Then wat abt situation where u havent planned or even given a thought.Ppl are afraid to break up.Instead they wud prefer not to see and accept reality n finally end up in pain.N thankfully the recent frend of mine doesnt have a BF who is blaming her now.but wats the use.All is said n done.I jus hope they wud be fine n someday in life feel tht it was gud tht they broke up.N to al those who thought loving is the only thing u have to do to make things work,im very sorry.Its not just tht.U have grow as an individual n if u cant love urself even after bein in love,its better u give it up.Jus tellin my opinion.No pun intended.Watever it is.Life must go on n time wil heal things.Lots of love to the sweet frend of mine who had the guts to listen to her mind n not her heart.And plz dont be selfish in love i.e being with the person even when u know this wudnt work.Ur jus deceiving urslef if u definitely know the other person wudnt be happy with u n stil go ahead with it just coz u cant leave him.I know sometimes this strategy works very well.Coz time heals n u feel better.But for things ur very sure of not changing n not becoming better,U better accept them the way they are rather than crib abt it.Ok may be im being highy opinated.But this is al for now.